What life occurrence is holding you back?  There are some things that we don't even realize keep us from having fulfilled lives and real joy.  People often give an insensitive "get over it", but sometimes it's just not that easy.  You can try positive affirmations, confessions, denial, revenge, and much more, but until your heart has been touched and healed, "getting over it" and "moving on" may seem impossible.

If we'd all be honest, we've missed out on relationships, opportunities, and moments, for fear of the unkown.  Often, fear of the unknown mixed with what we DO know...our experience...can be paralyzing, but you CAN have a great life.  I'm not speaking of an outwardly great life only, but one that is also inwardly satisfying that comes from a peace within and a joy that goes home with you even after you've left the company of your favorite people and experiences that make you smile.  Many are using careers, relationships, and other dependencies to numb themselves, but are alone when the pain comes back to life.

You may ask several questions such as "How can my heart be mended?", "How can I get past this?", "What happens in my life now?".  Many will say "I don't want to open this back up", when in reality, it has never closed because it yet lives in every decision you make and miss.  You can simply talk to God and be real about what you feel.  He sees, He knows, but most of all He understands, cares, and can help.  He's there waiting and wanting you to talk to Him about it...

Go for it!